MYTH #1: It's only abuse if it's violent.
Fact: Physical abuse is just one
type of child abuse. Neglect and emotional abuse can be just as
damaging, and since they are more subtle, others are less likely to
intervene. .
MYTH #2: Only bad people abuse their children.
Fact: While it's easy to say that
only "bad people" abuse their children, it's not always so black and
white. Not all abusers are intentionally harming their children. Many
have been victims of abuse themselves, and don’t know any other way to
parent. Others may be struggling with mental health issues or a
substance abuse problem.
MYTH #3: Child abuse doesn't happen in “good” families.
Fact: Child abuse doesn't only
happen in poor families or bad neighborhoods. It crosses all racial,
economic, and cultural lines. Sometimes, families who seem to have it
all from the outside are hiding a different story behind closed doors.
MYTH #4: Most child abusers are strangers.
Fact: While abuse by strangers does happen, most abusers are family members or others close to the family
MYTH #5: Abused children always grow up to be abusers.
Fact: It is true that abused
children are more likely to repeat the cycle as adults, unconsciously
repeating what they experienced as children. On the other hand, many
adult survivors of child abuse have a strong motivation to protect their
children against what they went through and become excellent parents.
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